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Welcome to my little corner of the internet. My name is Wendy and this is Solely Thriving; a space for women who want to tackle their own patriarchal complicity. I'm glad you're here♥️
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Anti-misogyny
The most important thing in my work is becoming anti-misogynistic. That means unpacking your internalized misogyny and your own conditioning that keeps you complicit in the patriarchal society we live in.
anti-bigotry
Patriarchy, white supremacy and bigotry are all intertwined. That means that we'll not just unpack our own misogyny, but also look at how misogyny, racism, transphobia and all other bigotry are connected.
pro-Kindness
Anti-misogyny and bigotry means decolonizing your mind and silencing your inner cop. That means that I use radical kindness in my work: no unnecesary pile-ons, but actual accountability combined with education.
Why
Solely thriving
Nothing is more threatening to the patriarchy than a woman who authentically exists and resists. Unapologetically.
- Wendy -
My name is Wendy and I started this blog because I am obsessed with intersectional feminism, the patriarchy and everyone's complicity in it. I want us to be able to have the hard conversations with ourselves and the people around us. So that we can ultimately change the world for each other, and all thrive together.
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Uncomfortable but necessary
Unpacking your own patriarchal complicity is hard work. You have to look at your own subconscious biases and unpack the ways you look at the world and how you approach your own life and the lives of others. This work is uncomfortable but necessary. Because we're all small links in the chain that makes up the patriarchal structure we live in. And by removing ourselves from that chain one by one, can we weaken it until it ultimately breaks.
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unpack complicity
Examine your own complicity in the patriarchy. We look at how our own conditioning makes us partially responsible for the systems in place. And we try to turn that conditioning into healing, instead of hurting.
Claiming space
Taking up space is an act of resistance. By going against the expectations set by society, we slowly undo years of patriarchal conditioning and create opportunities for the next generation.
Solely Myself
Learn how to be your authentic self by finding your own voice, completely void of patriarchal conditioning. It's time to be yourself. Without anyone telling you who that is or who you should be.
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