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This is why getting fired is actually a good thing

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Wendy in front of a frozen lakee, surrounded by snow, with a warning sign saying 'danger thin ice'

The complete guide to finally ‘Love Yourself’

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Wendy in a skirt and bra, looking at the camera while sitting in front of plants.

Know who you are: How to REALLY know yourself

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Wendy with black/white/grey make up on, except around one of her eyes, there we see colorful makeup coming through cracks drawn around the eye. The background is orange and Wendy stares directly at the camera.

Deal with weight fluctuations like a body positivity expert

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Wendy on a grass field with water behind her. She's wearing a bathingsuit and a sweater and is wearing sunglasses. She's fixing her hair while looking down. She's sitting on a watermelon blanket.

Owning mistakes: a guide to living a more authentic life

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Wendy rolling down a slope on a grass field next to a building with a little wall.

How to meditate: finally learn the skill of meditation

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Wendy on a beach, meditating and enjoying the sun

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Art to celebrate you

Illustration of brown shapes in the background. This changes into some colorful shapes around the words "Imagine all the geat things you're missing out on trying to be normal".
Illustration of a person, naked, on a swing. In the background is a rainbow in purple/pink colors and the clouds are pastel-colored. The person is surrounded by flowers. The drawing says: "I am always & fully myself"
Illustration of a capibara sitting with wide, red eyes, holding his arms to his chest. Ghosts fly out from his arms and the words on the illustration read "Time to embrace my inner demons".
Illustration with a colorful background. In a cloud is written "It takes time to become your unique, weird, cringy and happy self".
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How to hack women’s everlasting struggle with motivation

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illustration of a person sipping coffee and checking her phone while her computer is on fire and "deadline" appears in big letters on the screen. On the side, a person is pointing at their watch.

Women should… How the obsession with expectations really harms us

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illustration of a person at a desk overwhelmed while papers and phones are being handed to her

The key to happiness: defy unrealistic gender expectations​

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illustration of a man and a woman smiling contently in blue and pink portraying unrealistic gender expectations

Moral hater: the very dark side of leftism

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Bully in smartphone harassing, threatening and intimidating upset victim online. Cyberbullying, online flooding, social network harassment concept. Pinkish coral bluevector isolated illustration

The problem with the feminist man

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Illustration of a woman listening to a podcast by a man through her headphones while looking at her phone.

Acceptable misogyny: the risky line between good criticism and sexism

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Illustration of a person next to their phone while angry notifications pop up. The person looks scared

Divisive people aren’t the problem, our focus on the messenger is

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An illustration of a person towering over another person in a threatening way while the other divisive people tries to push them away

Trusting Your Intuition is Actually a Massive Act of Resistance

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illustration of a woman holding a heart in front of flowers

When Disgusting Jokes and Scare Tactics Become One

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An illustration of a woman sitting in front of a big phone with scary looking shadows in it who cyber bully her

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